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everyone I want to thank you guys for

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sticking around and anyone new I want to

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welcome you to the show

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um the Super Chat is open and I would

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remind you to like share and subscribe

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and I want to introduce you to our

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guests tonight which I'm so excited our

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guest tonight is Hadley valeros she is a

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non-profit found she's been there since

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2015.

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um and has worked in hospice and Elder

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Care since 2016. she shares her stories

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on her social media nurse Hadley or at

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nurse Hadley sorry about her life as a

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mom and nurse as well as uplifting

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stories from her patients that she hears

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and the incredible advice they share

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uh Sorry my phone's just a little messed

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up tonight

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let's see

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we're just gonna bring her in and she

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can explain it more I'm so sorry about

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everything was just so good on

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so thank you so much for being here

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thank you for having me

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so do you want to tell everyone a little

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bit about yourself

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yeah of course from your bio yeah you

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did a good job so basically I'm a

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registered nurse and I have worked in

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hospice for the vast majority of my

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career and for anyone who doesn't know

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what hospice is that is uh caring for

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people usually in their homes in the

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last six months of their life

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um they're not pursuing any aggressive

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treatment we're just there to keep them

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comfortable

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um until they pass

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and so we're we're their last nurse that

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they'll ever have

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and so what brought you into the field

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of hospice nursing

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yeah so I started in a nursing home

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um that is where I was first introduced

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to hospice because you have hospice

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nurses come into the nursing home to

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care for patients and I got to see the

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hospice nurses be one-on-one with a

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patient instead of like running around

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like crazy just trying to do everything

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for so many patients at one time in

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hospice you get to sit one-on-one with

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patients for like an hour at a time and

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it's how medicine should be in my

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totally agree with that yeah

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um yes so what was your first experience

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with somebody who was having a deathbed

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so you guys do like training you know

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and so I remember my boss calling me and

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being like hey I need you to come meet

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me at this home so I go and she is

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talking to her deceased sister

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um like she's there like we should be

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able to see her too and it's not that

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she's confused and she can't talk to us

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like she can still talk to us just like

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there that we couldn't see and she was

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laughing and it was just one of the most

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did what did that do to you seeing that

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experienced at that time or at least not

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loved one and we're not going to

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about this yeah it happens to everyone

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like it happens to everyone and then I

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was like all right my co-worker's crazy

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what happens in hospice care and we just

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stories I've seen that you present on

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comforting and amazing so what this you

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stuck with you yeah so I had a patient

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child really one of the only times I've

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ever seen a child come and they're

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plating playing hide and seek

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his wife he was talking to me like he

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think they're having a hallucination

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spider or a rainbow or you know the fact

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that all these people with different

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religions different beliefs they're all

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crossed over before them

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that that's kind of all she had so she

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that's very hard because I know that

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they're not ready they're not ready to

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lose their kids and I'm just preparing

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myself currently because I think that

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one's going to be really hard

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you know when they're not ready

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that's coming out I believe it's June

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house I've been writing it for two years

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you get to see that first patient I took

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care of and it follows me for about two

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um and it's the way I did it is it's 12

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chapters and 12 patients that I feel

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like were just like very impactful

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afterlife or just really teaching me

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something and then I have my own

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personal story woven throughout it so

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you get to kind of see me go from being

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like a brand new hospice nurse and being

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like I don't know about all this

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afterlife stuff and all this stuff

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in it and confident in myself and

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we're very excited I actually proved it

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when I was looking it up to make sure we

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I'm preparing it up already so

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this before you became a hospice nurse

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very very religious so I did and then I

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lost a friend very young and I started

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always told just like just believe don't

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know that there's an afterlife from what

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anyone really knows what it looks like

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like if anyone really has all those

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going there I think have the answers so

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what has been the most uplifting story

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or encounter you've seen with your

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with your yeah I've told this line on my

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Tick Tock before I'm gonna tell it again

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because I just love it it's um

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first job was in this little bitty Beach

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town in Florida and so we would get

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these patients that would come on

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vacation so like when you go on vacation

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on hospice they'll call a local company

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in the vacation town and be like hey if

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they have any emergencies

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like will you be the one to go there in

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case they need you so we would get a lot

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of those patients so we wouldn't really

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them before but we would show up for

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nothing else so I'm walking in just

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completely blind

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and

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girl

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um who's bald so I'm assuming she has

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cancer and she's like about to pass any

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minute and her friend is just like

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frantically walking around just freaking

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out and I have to like tell her like

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he's about to pass and she tells me like

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she just wanted to go to the beach one

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last time so I just like put her in the

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car and she like declined a lot while

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they were driving from a different state

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like she went completely downhill in

291
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that time and so I was like okay well

292
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she's she's about to pass like you know

293
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this this is what's happening

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and she ran out the door and I was like

295
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what is going on and she comes back with

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this bowl of sand geez and she opens up

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all the like sliding glass doors and she

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like puts her feet in this bowl of sand

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and like holds her hand and is like you

300
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made it to the beach like you got there

301
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you made it to the beach and she passed

302
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like right after that

303
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it was so sweet

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oh

305
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my goodness I know yeah I think you're

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gonna make everyone cry with that one

307
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that's very sweet

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um oh my goodness yeah

309
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uh what do you think you know what do

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you want people to take away from your

311
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book when they read it in the end

312
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I really don't want people to be afraid

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of death because I used to be very very

314
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afraid of death and I know how

315
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paralyzing that can feel and I think

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that if you can walk away feeling very

317
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confident in an afterlife and really how

318
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like I know everyone says like life is

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short but like I want it to be in like a

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positive way like we've got this time to

321
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like live and we need to like take

322
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advantage of it but not in like a um

323
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like in a morbid way

324
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and like I really do believe in an

325
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afterlife no matter what you believe in

326
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like I think how you live here on Earth

327
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matters a lot and what you believe in

328
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does not matter that much as long as

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you're a good person

330
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and I want people to stop being so

331
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afraid of like what's to come and I

332
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think that those experiences that people

333
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can like be put in my shoes through my

334
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I I agree that's very well said one of

335
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the stories that caught my attention I

336
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found it was interesting on your Tick

337
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Tock was you said this woman was um

338
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getting ready to pass and one of her

339
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which one I'm talking about I think that

340
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was the only one yeah she had had a

341
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miscarriage and she was holding a baby

342
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and like none of her other children knew

343
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oh yes

344
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um well I think that one do you want to

345
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tell everyone that one

346
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yeah I've got I literally have taken

347
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care of like probably a thousand

348
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patients so I'm trying to think of which

349
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one that one

350
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um

351
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that was well if you can even if a

352
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random one

353
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yeah I think that one was um she was

354
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holding a baby and she was talking to it

355
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and her daughter I believe said

356
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something about like they didn't know

357
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and then her sister had came and said

358
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well she had had a miscarriage before

359
00:16:03,889 --> 00:16:02,339
she had had you and none of her kids

360
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knew

361
00:16:10,689 --> 00:16:06,420
yes okay now I know which one you're

362
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talking about I had to yeah

363
00:16:17,389 --> 00:16:14,160
no you don't it's me I always have to

364
00:16:19,550 --> 00:16:17,399
change things a little bit because of a

365
00:16:21,410 --> 00:16:19,560
privacy things

366
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you know so I like have to change a

367
00:16:28,310 --> 00:16:24,300
detail so like maybe it was like her son

368
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talking to her but yes that I was always

369
00:16:34,009 --> 00:16:30,720
amazing because I've had two separate

370
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instances where that happened where

371
00:16:39,949 --> 00:16:37,680
um I've been in the room and there's

372
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talking about people who died that they

373
00:16:47,629 --> 00:16:43,500
didn't know so another one was

374
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um she was very old and her

375
00:16:51,650 --> 00:16:49,380
daughter died the patient's daughter

376
00:16:53,870 --> 00:16:51,660
died and she had other kids and they

377
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decided to not tell her

378
00:16:57,829 --> 00:16:56,399
because they didn't want to upset her

379
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and

380
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um I didn't agree with that that's what

381
00:17:03,789 --> 00:17:01,259
they did and

382
00:17:06,590 --> 00:17:03,799
um when she was seeing these loved ones

383
00:17:10,309 --> 00:17:06,600
that daughter that passed came

384
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and so she said you know she's here and

385
00:17:15,770 --> 00:17:12,299
the other daughter was like no she's

386
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she's not here no no no she's not here

387
00:17:21,530 --> 00:17:19,620
because she's dead and um she's like no

388
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no she is here and I always thought that

389
00:17:25,850 --> 00:17:23,280
that was so

390
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like incredible that she did come and

391
00:17:31,070 --> 00:17:27,839
like see her

392
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and she was she was seeing her

393
00:17:34,850 --> 00:17:33,240
yeah yeah when that I heard that one

394
00:17:37,190 --> 00:17:34,860
story I was very amazed at that

395
00:17:39,169 --> 00:17:37,200
especially because nobody else knew but

396
00:17:42,289 --> 00:17:39,179
the sister who had just arrived and she

397
00:17:44,570 --> 00:17:42,299
was very natural and like oh yeah oh

398
00:17:47,930 --> 00:17:44,580
yeah you know all this how do you think

399
00:17:50,210 --> 00:17:47,940
that no your stories help people because

400
00:17:52,669 --> 00:17:50,220
I know it's one of the comments that you

401
00:17:54,049 --> 00:17:52,679
know from Deepak that you know he thinks

402
00:17:56,630 --> 00:17:54,059
this is going to help a lot of people

403
00:17:59,330 --> 00:17:56,640
hearing you talk about these visions and

404
00:18:01,310 --> 00:17:59,340
knowing basically your loved ones aren't

405
00:18:03,350 --> 00:18:01,320
alone or that we aren't alone as we're

406
00:18:05,210 --> 00:18:03,360
getting ready to pass

407
00:18:07,549 --> 00:18:05,220
yeah I mean I think it helps with

408
00:18:09,409 --> 00:18:07,559
people's fear of the afterlife but also

409
00:18:12,110 --> 00:18:09,419
a lot of comments that kind of surprised

410
00:18:14,450 --> 00:18:12,120
me is where people are sharing that um

411
00:18:16,370 --> 00:18:14,460
that happened with their loved one and

412
00:18:18,590 --> 00:18:16,380
they were like didn't know what was

413
00:18:20,990 --> 00:18:18,600
happening and

414
00:18:22,970 --> 00:18:21,000
um you know with a lot of patience I'm

415
00:18:24,409 --> 00:18:22,980
the only common denominator there like

416
00:18:25,970 --> 00:18:24,419
the families don't get to go see other

417
00:18:27,830 --> 00:18:25,980
patients and see that it's happening

418
00:18:30,650 --> 00:18:27,840
with other people so they're just

419
00:18:32,630 --> 00:18:30,660
wondering like is my loved one confused

420
00:18:33,950 --> 00:18:32,640
so I think whenever I come and say like

421
00:18:35,630 --> 00:18:33,960
no this is something that happens to

422
00:18:38,090 --> 00:18:35,640
everyone it's very normal I think that

423
00:18:40,190 --> 00:18:38,100
gives like a comfort of like oh they

424
00:18:44,650 --> 00:18:40,200
really were seeing their parents or

425
00:18:50,810 --> 00:18:47,810
have you ever had anyone who's had maybe

426
00:18:53,690 --> 00:18:50,820
a bad Vision who's been afraid like

427
00:18:55,730 --> 00:18:53,700
something that they didn't want

428
00:18:57,350 --> 00:18:55,740
I've had one

429
00:18:59,510 --> 00:18:57,360
um if you want to talk about that that's

430
00:19:02,870 --> 00:18:59,520
fine if you don't that's okay

431
00:19:05,330 --> 00:19:02,880
you know you don't worry I don't want to

432
00:19:06,590 --> 00:19:05,340
talk about that no you know what I don't

433
00:19:09,590 --> 00:19:06,600
mind you know I think it's important

434
00:19:11,450 --> 00:19:09,600
because I did tell the story probably

435
00:19:15,230 --> 00:19:11,460
two and a half years ago on Tick Tock

436
00:19:19,130 --> 00:19:15,240
and it got tons of views and basically

437
00:19:20,510 --> 00:19:19,140
she yelled as she was dying and like she

438
00:19:21,650 --> 00:19:20,520
shouldn't have been medically able to

439
00:19:23,270 --> 00:19:21,660
yell

440
00:19:25,370 --> 00:19:23,280
um after being in a coma for like a week

441
00:19:30,890 --> 00:19:25,380
and

442
00:19:33,409 --> 00:19:30,900
um I was always concerned about what

443
00:19:36,049 --> 00:19:33,419
happened there but you know I wouldn't

444
00:19:37,430 --> 00:19:36,059
tell that story today because like if I

445
00:19:40,549 --> 00:19:37,440
could go back and redo it I wouldn't do

446
00:19:41,630 --> 00:19:40,559
it today because it's I've taken care of

447
00:19:44,150 --> 00:19:41,640
like I said like a thousand people and

448
00:19:46,070 --> 00:19:44,160
it's one person and I don't want people

449
00:19:48,350 --> 00:19:46,080
to think that that's the norm

450
00:19:50,510 --> 00:19:48,360
you know what I mean like I'd rather

451
00:19:52,730 --> 00:19:50,520
tell stories that are more like what the

452
00:19:54,529 --> 00:19:52,740
norm is because I don't want people to

453
00:19:57,049 --> 00:19:54,539
be like afraid to go into the profession

454
00:19:58,430 --> 00:19:57,059
because it's likely that that'll never

455
00:20:00,830 --> 00:19:58,440
happen to you

456
00:20:03,650 --> 00:20:00,840
I just was The Unlucky One in a Million

457
00:20:05,510 --> 00:20:03,660
that that happened exactly yeah it's

458
00:20:08,049 --> 00:20:05,520
it's basically that one in a million

459
00:20:11,330 --> 00:20:08,059
yeah

460
00:20:13,970 --> 00:20:11,340
I know when my when my grandmother when

461
00:20:17,270 --> 00:20:13,980
my grandmother was passing you know she

462
00:20:19,130 --> 00:20:17,280
she had been you know very of like she

463
00:20:22,130 --> 00:20:19,140
had not been a good person and I think

464
00:20:26,690 --> 00:20:22,140
that comes back and she's grandfather

465
00:20:28,490 --> 00:20:26,700
and in the nursing home she she had

466
00:20:31,789 --> 00:20:28,500
basically said you know that you like

467
00:20:35,510 --> 00:20:31,799
they had her in the recreation room

468
00:20:37,909 --> 00:20:35,520
bug to die and my husband's coming for

469
00:20:39,470 --> 00:20:37,919
me and this is kind of like okay that's

470
00:20:42,470 --> 00:20:39,480
enough we're gonna take you back to your

471
00:20:44,150 --> 00:20:42,480
room now yeah and that was that and then

472
00:20:46,330 --> 00:20:44,160
I think about two weeks later she had

473
00:20:48,950 --> 00:20:46,340
passed yeah yeah

474
00:20:52,010 --> 00:20:48,960
one brother and yeah because it was all

475
00:20:53,750 --> 00:20:52,020
documented in the notes yeah but I mean

476
00:20:56,390 --> 00:20:53,760
it was it was just that little outburst

477
00:20:58,130 --> 00:20:56,400
and it was just like oh okay yeah

478
00:21:00,289 --> 00:20:58,140
yeah that's that's why I was wondering

479
00:21:02,990 --> 00:21:00,299
if that was something that was common or

480
00:21:04,510 --> 00:21:03,000
it's in the personality because it seems

481
00:21:08,270 --> 00:21:04,520
like the people

482
00:21:10,190 --> 00:21:08,280
they are very good yeah they're very

483
00:21:11,990 --> 00:21:10,200
good people I mean they seem to have

484
00:21:14,150 --> 00:21:12,000
maybe had some sort of struggle but

485
00:21:16,310 --> 00:21:14,160
they're overall good people

486
00:21:20,029 --> 00:21:16,320
yeah and I like to think you know most

487
00:21:22,730 --> 00:21:20,039
people are you know good people

488
00:21:24,230 --> 00:21:22,740
um I did also say I had another video

489
00:21:26,990 --> 00:21:24,240
recently about that I am a little bit

490
00:21:30,549 --> 00:21:27,000
more proud of that said basically

491
00:21:33,230 --> 00:21:30,559
um where I have had patience try to

492
00:21:35,029 --> 00:21:33,240
guilt-trip their children to talking to

493
00:21:36,890 --> 00:21:35,039
them

494
00:21:39,350 --> 00:21:36,900
um when they've been estranged and be

495
00:21:41,270 --> 00:21:39,360
like hey call is a hospice nurse and say

496
00:21:44,630 --> 00:21:41,280
like I'm on my deathbed and they should

497
00:21:47,690 --> 00:21:44,640
talk to me and I won't do it you know

498
00:21:49,669 --> 00:21:47,700
I'll say you know I'll call them and say

499
00:21:51,890 --> 00:21:49,679
what the situation is but that is

500
00:21:53,450 --> 00:21:51,900
totally up to them like I'm not going to

501
00:21:55,549 --> 00:21:53,460
Guilt Trip them and I basically said if

502
00:21:57,890 --> 00:21:55,559
you don't want to talk to your parents

503
00:21:59,930 --> 00:21:57,900
you you don't have to and I don't think

504
00:22:01,669 --> 00:21:59,940
you're a bad person and I said you know

505
00:22:03,890 --> 00:22:01,679
I don't think that you owe people who

506
00:22:06,049 --> 00:22:03,900
abused you peace

507
00:22:08,149 --> 00:22:06,059
but you know I do have people like that

508
00:22:09,950 --> 00:22:08,159
that try to Guilt Trip people into

509
00:22:11,810 --> 00:22:09,960
talking yeah

510
00:22:14,330 --> 00:22:11,820
yeah

511
00:22:18,230 --> 00:22:14,340
she she was that type actually to be

512
00:22:21,529 --> 00:22:18,240
Honestly though but no I I yeah she a

513
00:22:24,350 --> 00:22:21,539
lot of people related to it

514
00:22:26,390 --> 00:22:24,360
mm-hmm yeah and and it's it's

515
00:22:27,830 --> 00:22:26,400
interesting it really is because the way

516
00:22:30,710 --> 00:22:27,840
your stories are I mean they do they

517
00:22:33,230 --> 00:22:30,720
give hope and they're very inspirational

518
00:22:35,870 --> 00:22:33,240
and then you like you said you have that

519
00:22:37,750 --> 00:22:35,880
one little corner out of a million

520
00:22:40,310 --> 00:22:37,760
that's just like oh

521
00:22:42,230 --> 00:22:40,320
but no that's that's why I wondered I'm

522
00:22:43,610 --> 00:22:42,240
sure somebody was going to ask that too

523
00:22:45,470 --> 00:22:43,620
so I'm like I'm gonna beat them to the

524
00:22:47,570 --> 00:22:45,480
punch

525
00:22:49,370 --> 00:22:47,580
questions for you

526
00:22:51,710 --> 00:22:49,380
laughs

527
00:22:53,390 --> 00:22:51,720
so Marlo Trader wants to know is there

528
00:22:55,990 --> 00:22:53,400
one experience that has affected you

529
00:23:00,950 --> 00:22:56,000
more than the others

530
00:23:02,390 --> 00:23:00,960
yeah so a lot have

531
00:23:04,970 --> 00:23:02,400
um

532
00:23:06,770 --> 00:23:04,980
sometimes I feel you know actually my

533
00:23:08,690 --> 00:23:06,780
most one of my most recent videos

534
00:23:10,610 --> 00:23:08,700
honestly

535
00:23:13,310 --> 00:23:10,620
um affected me a lot which is basically

536
00:23:15,950 --> 00:23:13,320
where I have a 12 week old and a

537
00:23:19,310 --> 00:23:15,960
three-year-old and I was feeling

538
00:23:21,350 --> 00:23:19,320
extremely overwhelmed by just domestic

539
00:23:23,149 --> 00:23:21,360
responsibilities lately you know toys

540
00:23:26,930 --> 00:23:23,159
everywhere

541
00:23:28,850 --> 00:23:26,940
um just a house a mess and I got a call

542
00:23:30,230 --> 00:23:28,860
I was going about my day as a nurse and

543
00:23:31,430 --> 00:23:30,240
I got a call from another nurse saying

544
00:23:33,710 --> 00:23:31,440
hey

545
00:23:34,850 --> 00:23:33,720
um I'm across town you're this patient's

546
00:23:36,710 --> 00:23:34,860
right by your house can you please go

547
00:23:38,750 --> 00:23:36,720
see him for me they're like they're one

548
00:23:42,289 --> 00:23:38,760
of our pediatric patients children

549
00:23:43,789 --> 00:23:42,299
patients which I don't normally see and

550
00:23:45,110 --> 00:23:43,799
they definitely didn't have me seeing

551
00:23:47,810 --> 00:23:45,120
any of them when I was pregnant of

552
00:23:50,450 --> 00:23:47,820
course and um

553
00:23:52,370 --> 00:23:50,460
so I was like sure I can go

554
00:23:54,409 --> 00:23:52,380
and I show up and basically what's going

555
00:23:57,350 --> 00:23:54,419
on is that the parents are concerned

556
00:23:59,810 --> 00:23:57,360
because the child is not playing with

557
00:24:01,010 --> 00:23:59,820
their toys anymore like they're too

558
00:24:04,549 --> 00:24:01,020
tired to get out of bed and play with

559
00:24:07,310 --> 00:24:04,559
their toys and for me I was like whoa

560
00:24:09,230 --> 00:24:07,320
okay like now I need to take a step back

561
00:24:10,970 --> 00:24:09,240
like I could not believe I was

562
00:24:13,789 --> 00:24:10,980
complaining about the toys all over the

563
00:24:16,430 --> 00:24:13,799
house this morning like it's just like

564
00:24:19,610 --> 00:24:16,440
the perspective shift and it made me so

565
00:24:22,549 --> 00:24:19,620
much more grateful honestly

566
00:24:24,770 --> 00:24:22,559
yeah I I have a four-year-old so I can

567
00:24:27,230 --> 00:24:24,780
relate to that yeah and it's

568
00:24:30,350 --> 00:24:27,240
heartbreaking you know but

569
00:24:32,750 --> 00:24:30,360
yeah I do I mean I like I I was even

570
00:24:35,570 --> 00:24:32,760
complaining today actually about his

571
00:24:38,330 --> 00:24:35,580
stuff everywhere so because I stepped on

572
00:24:40,730 --> 00:24:38,340
something but and I get it and that I

573
00:24:42,409 --> 00:24:40,740
couldn't imagine this I feel bad for

574
00:24:44,450 --> 00:24:42,419
them I really do

575
00:24:52,490 --> 00:24:44,460
how do you take it and it's hard do you

576
00:24:57,590 --> 00:24:55,430
yeah is that your first okay I was going

577
00:24:59,450 --> 00:24:57,600
to ask if you had others and if you know

578
00:25:01,010 --> 00:24:59,460
they had had any Visions or anything

579
00:25:02,930 --> 00:25:01,020
that you know of

580
00:25:04,370 --> 00:25:02,940
yeah usually

581
00:25:07,430 --> 00:25:04,380
um what companies will do they'll train

582
00:25:10,070 --> 00:25:07,440
one person in it and they'll be like the

583
00:25:11,690 --> 00:25:10,080
Pediatric person and then we're just

584
00:25:12,770 --> 00:25:11,700
kind of there to help in case they get

585
00:25:13,789 --> 00:25:12,780
busy

586
00:25:16,370 --> 00:25:13,799
um so that's actually been the first

587
00:25:18,950 --> 00:25:16,380
time I've ever actually had to help so

588
00:25:20,450 --> 00:25:18,960
but I was telling my husband that I feel

589
00:25:22,789 --> 00:25:20,460
like I might need to start getting some

590
00:25:25,310 --> 00:25:22,799
training in it and helping because they

591
00:25:26,810 --> 00:25:25,320
they deserve you know they deserve just

592
00:25:28,909 --> 00:25:26,820
as much care as everyone else does even

593
00:25:32,390 --> 00:25:28,919
though it's hard to see

594
00:25:34,730 --> 00:25:32,400
yeah yeah I I totally agree and it takes

595
00:25:36,769 --> 00:25:34,740
a strong person to be able to work with

596
00:25:38,930 --> 00:25:36,779
the Pediatric kids especially towards

597
00:25:41,750 --> 00:25:38,940
the end like that so I give you a lot of

598
00:25:44,510 --> 00:25:41,760
credit for that thank you Vincent wants

599
00:25:47,090 --> 00:25:44,520
to know have you seen have you seen any

600
00:25:49,250 --> 00:25:47,100
paranormal activity at work does it

601
00:25:52,070 --> 00:25:49,260
follow you home

602
00:25:53,750 --> 00:25:52,080
yeah so I feel like it does I feel like

603
00:25:56,690 --> 00:25:53,760
it's more of like an energy thing

604
00:25:58,190 --> 00:25:56,700
sometimes where you can like feel

605
00:26:00,110 --> 00:25:58,200
um I should just describe and see

606
00:26:02,990 --> 00:26:00,120
someone the other day that sometimes you

607
00:26:04,130 --> 00:26:03,000
feel like someone's with you like you

608
00:26:05,870 --> 00:26:04,140
know how whenever you just like

609
00:26:07,610 --> 00:26:05,880
comfortably sitting in like a living

610
00:26:08,690 --> 00:26:07,620
room with someone and like you or not

611
00:26:10,970 --> 00:26:08,700
talking because you're both on your

612
00:26:12,890 --> 00:26:10,980
phones but like they're there it like

613
00:26:14,630 --> 00:26:12,900
almost is like that feeling of like

614
00:26:17,930 --> 00:26:14,640
someone else being in the room with you

615
00:26:19,610 --> 00:26:17,940
and whenever I have those experiences

616
00:26:22,070 --> 00:26:19,620
where someone's seeing their deceased

617
00:26:23,510 --> 00:26:22,080
loved one I'll feel that a lot of times

618
00:26:25,130 --> 00:26:23,520
I feel like I'll like leave my car and

619
00:26:26,510 --> 00:26:25,140
I'll feel like someone in the passenger

620
00:26:28,370 --> 00:26:26,520
seat

621
00:26:29,870 --> 00:26:28,380
um with me

622
00:26:32,649 --> 00:26:29,880
um but

623
00:26:36,169 --> 00:26:32,659
there's like multiple

624
00:26:37,610 --> 00:26:36,179
times that I will wake up in the middle

625
00:26:39,529 --> 00:26:37,620
of night and I will know someone has

626
00:26:42,590 --> 00:26:39,539
passed

627
00:26:44,510 --> 00:26:42,600
um and I don't know how I know that but

628
00:26:47,510 --> 00:26:44,520
I'll go check it the next day and I'll

629
00:26:49,430 --> 00:26:47,520
be within you know 10 minutes so

630
00:26:53,710 --> 00:26:49,440
and that that's happened a few times

631
00:26:58,370 --> 00:26:56,210
is it do you think it's because you were

632
00:27:00,169 --> 00:26:58,380
close to that patient or do you just

633
00:27:02,390 --> 00:27:00,179
think it was instinct

634
00:27:03,230 --> 00:27:02,400
every single time I've been close to the

635
00:27:04,909 --> 00:27:03,240
patient

636
00:27:07,430 --> 00:27:04,919
you know it's never been someone that I

637
00:27:08,750 --> 00:27:07,440
like had just met so maybe it was like a

638
00:27:16,070 --> 00:27:08,760
goodbye

639
00:27:20,750 --> 00:27:18,169
yeah yeah I I think that as well because

640
00:27:22,490 --> 00:27:20,760
that's what it would sound like to me

641
00:27:25,130 --> 00:27:22,500
um Vincent okay that was already we

642
00:27:27,110 --> 00:27:25,140
gotta get that one off there uh

643
00:27:29,690 --> 00:27:27,120
let's see I'm not gonna butcher this

644
00:27:32,409 --> 00:27:29,700
name have you had any experiences with

645
00:27:36,289 --> 00:27:35,450
you know I don't know if

646
00:27:38,930 --> 00:27:36,299
um

647
00:27:42,169 --> 00:27:38,940
Angels is what you know they would be

648
00:27:44,870 --> 00:27:42,179
called but more of like a guardian

649
00:27:46,250 --> 00:27:44,880
um kind of thing

650
00:27:48,409 --> 00:27:46,260
um

651
00:27:51,890 --> 00:27:48,419
I feel like there's been some instances

652
00:27:54,230 --> 00:27:51,900
where I had been like they've been my

653
00:27:56,090 --> 00:27:54,240
angels like my past patients

654
00:27:58,789 --> 00:27:56,100
um there was an instance a couple years

655
00:28:03,769 --> 00:27:58,799
ago uh where it's almost like things

656
00:28:05,450 --> 00:28:03,779
just align too odd so we um we had gone

657
00:28:07,070 --> 00:28:05,460
to Florida for the weekend we live near

658
00:28:09,710 --> 00:28:07,080
New Orleans so like a couple hours away

659
00:28:13,190 --> 00:28:09,720
to visit in-laws we get back to our

660
00:28:15,409 --> 00:28:13,200
house and we're like oh the house smells

661
00:28:16,850 --> 00:28:15,419
terrible we must have forgotten to take

662
00:28:21,230 --> 00:28:16,860
the trash out before we left for the

663
00:28:23,870 --> 00:28:21,240
weekend so we take the trash out we go

664
00:28:26,269 --> 00:28:23,880
to the grocery store it's like a Sunday

665
00:28:29,210 --> 00:28:26,279
night and

666
00:28:31,010 --> 00:28:29,220
um I kept walking past this frozen pizza

667
00:28:32,750 --> 00:28:31,020
aisle and this patient that I had that

668
00:28:35,090 --> 00:28:32,760
would eat these frozen pizzas all the

669
00:28:38,149 --> 00:28:35,100
time I like could not get it off my mind

670
00:28:39,890 --> 00:28:38,159
to get this frozen pizza so I it sounds

671
00:28:41,750 --> 00:28:39,900
so silly but I was like okay I'm gonna

672
00:28:42,950 --> 00:28:41,760
try these frozen pizzas that you would

673
00:28:47,149 --> 00:28:42,960
always eat so I put it in my cart we

674
00:28:50,450 --> 00:28:47,159
keep going yeah and the pizza place that

675
00:28:52,549 --> 00:28:50,460
we always call to like to get actual

676
00:28:54,289 --> 00:28:52,559
like delivered Pizza would not pick up

677
00:28:56,690 --> 00:28:54,299
the phone so I was like you know what

678
00:28:59,570 --> 00:28:56,700
great I just picked up this frozen pizza

679
00:29:01,370 --> 00:28:59,580
so let's put it in the oven okay it just

680
00:29:03,529 --> 00:29:01,380
works forever that's what it was

681
00:29:06,470 --> 00:29:03,539
supposed to do so

682
00:29:08,390 --> 00:29:06,480
um I start breeding the oven and

683
00:29:11,630 --> 00:29:08,400
um it caught on fire the entire oven

684
00:29:14,510 --> 00:29:11,640
caught on fire and we had to call the

685
00:29:17,269 --> 00:29:14,520
fire department and um put it out I mean

686
00:29:20,389 --> 00:29:17,279
like the whole kitchen was ruined

687
00:29:23,330 --> 00:29:20,399
um and they later determined that that

688
00:29:25,310 --> 00:29:23,340
it was a gas leak and that smell that we

689
00:29:26,330 --> 00:29:25,320
had smelled was the gas leaking that we

690
00:29:27,649 --> 00:29:26,340
had thought that we had forgotten to

691
00:29:30,950 --> 00:29:27,659
take out the trash

692
00:29:32,570 --> 00:29:30,960
and if we had not started the oven that

693
00:29:35,029 --> 00:29:32,580
night they said we probably would have

694
00:29:37,630 --> 00:29:35,039
all died in our sleep

695
00:29:40,909 --> 00:29:37,640
so I was like oh wow

696
00:29:44,450 --> 00:29:40,919
over me like everything had to align for

697
00:29:49,970 --> 00:29:46,850
exactly and someone probably was

698
00:29:52,130 --> 00:29:49,980
watching over you oh my God yes

699
00:29:54,889 --> 00:29:52,140
um Marla wants to know have you ever

700
00:29:59,990 --> 00:29:54,899
felt that any of your patients have

701
00:30:05,210 --> 00:30:02,029
um yeah I think one patient comes and

702
00:30:07,730 --> 00:30:05,220
sees me as a bluebird

703
00:30:09,230 --> 00:30:07,740
um he had a blue bird that was always

704
00:30:11,630 --> 00:30:09,240
outside of his house like it lived in

705
00:30:13,970 --> 00:30:11,640
the tree outside of its house I think

706
00:30:16,970 --> 00:30:13,980
that would always like stare at me while

707
00:30:19,490 --> 00:30:16,980
I was charting and then it like flew

708
00:30:21,830 --> 00:30:19,500
alongside him as the funeral home took

709
00:30:25,610 --> 00:30:21,840
him out of his house

710
00:30:27,110 --> 00:30:25,620
um and then he's in my book and there

711
00:30:29,810 --> 00:30:27,120
was a time when I was writing my book

712
00:30:31,549 --> 00:30:29,820
that I was like kind of having a little

713
00:30:33,590 --> 00:30:31,559
pan attack like am I doing these people

714
00:30:36,830 --> 00:30:33,600
Justice like am I doing their stories

715
00:30:38,330 --> 00:30:36,840
Justice and I

716
00:30:40,310 --> 00:30:38,340
um went outside like a couple hours

717
00:30:41,750 --> 00:30:40,320
later and a bluebird came and like

718
00:30:45,169 --> 00:30:41,760
landed by me

719
00:30:47,090 --> 00:30:45,179
and I was like oh hey okay like are you

720
00:30:49,669 --> 00:30:47,100
okay with things like I kind of talked

721
00:30:53,269 --> 00:30:49,679
to it and I feel like he comes and sees

722
00:30:57,710 --> 00:30:55,909
oh that's wonderful and I we put your

723
00:31:07,870 --> 00:30:57,720
Tick Tock up there for

724
00:31:16,190 --> 00:31:11,570
check it out I honestly think you do and

725
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,909
you broke up for a second

726
00:31:24,169 --> 00:31:21,769
I

727
00:31:27,289 --> 00:31:24,179
sorry because everything froze on my end

728
00:31:29,029 --> 00:31:27,299
I'm sorry um I will love everyone yeah I

729
00:31:31,130 --> 00:31:29,039
will let everyone know too that like

730
00:31:33,409 --> 00:31:31,140
with the with the cold and everything my

731
00:31:36,110 --> 00:31:33,419
Internet is just awful so if I do freeze

732
00:31:36,769 --> 00:31:36,120
or pause that's the reason tonight

733
00:31:39,169 --> 00:31:36,779
um

734
00:31:41,149 --> 00:31:39,179
so like I said we put your Tick Tock up

735
00:31:43,549 --> 00:31:41,159
there and for everyone to go check it

736
00:31:45,649 --> 00:31:43,559
out and if they do they're going to need

737
00:31:48,350 --> 00:31:45,659
tissues because you do your patients

738
00:31:52,909 --> 00:31:48,360
more than Justice I mean they're they're

739
00:31:54,850 --> 00:31:52,919
amazing this Tick Tock so thank you uh

740
00:31:59,389 --> 00:31:54,860
let's you're welcome

741
00:32:01,669 --> 00:31:59,399
let's see uh good still I think you're

742
00:32:04,250 --> 00:32:01,679
very brave or he says you're very brave

743
00:32:05,690 --> 00:32:04,260
for what you do and what you're doing in

744
00:32:10,250 --> 00:32:05,700
wonderful service

745
00:32:10,260 --> 00:32:15,970
foreign

746
00:32:21,289 --> 00:32:18,529
Nancy says have you ever seen any ghosts

747
00:32:24,049 --> 00:32:21,299
that have come back to help any dying

748
00:32:27,649 --> 00:32:24,059
person pass on which

749
00:32:31,310 --> 00:32:27,659
yeah all the time I think yeah a lot of

750
00:32:33,230 --> 00:32:31,320
people will have oh you have okay well I

751
00:32:33,889 --> 00:32:33,240
mean I would say that

752
00:32:36,409 --> 00:32:33,899
um

753
00:32:39,110 --> 00:32:36,419
there to see family members come and I

754
00:32:42,350 --> 00:32:39,120
have had one patient where I

755
00:32:45,710 --> 00:32:42,360
took care of him and then I took care of

756
00:32:48,470 --> 00:32:45,720
his wife like six months later and she

757
00:32:50,090 --> 00:32:48,480
saw him so I was like oh hey hey Mr

758
00:32:54,049 --> 00:32:50,100
Smith

759
00:32:56,029 --> 00:32:54,059
you can hear me have you seen

760
00:32:57,730 --> 00:32:56,039
have you seen any of them physically

761
00:33:00,830 --> 00:32:57,740
though

762
00:33:03,590 --> 00:33:00,840
no I've not seen any they always just

763
00:33:08,510 --> 00:33:04,970
yeah

764
00:33:09,049 --> 00:33:08,520
I can't see him unfortunately I

765
00:33:11,930 --> 00:33:09,059
um

766
00:33:15,169 --> 00:33:11,940
I did hear actually from one of my

767
00:33:17,509 --> 00:33:15,179
co-workers though and you've uh

768
00:33:19,970 --> 00:33:17,519
we'll read

769
00:33:21,169 --> 00:33:19,980
I was saying one of my co-workers who

770
00:33:23,750 --> 00:33:21,179
has been a hospice nurse much much

771
00:33:27,350 --> 00:33:23,760
longer than me used to work at a

772
00:33:29,630 --> 00:33:27,360
different company and she said that one

773
00:33:31,669 --> 00:33:29,640
of her hospice nurse co-workers so

774
00:33:32,570 --> 00:33:31,679
someone I did not know

775
00:33:35,870 --> 00:33:32,580
um

776
00:33:37,250 --> 00:33:35,880
saw one of these deceased loved ones and

777
00:33:38,690 --> 00:33:37,260
she came back to the office and was like

778
00:33:40,389 --> 00:33:38,700
they were saying that they were seeing

779
00:33:42,950 --> 00:33:40,399
deceased loved ones and I saw them too

780
00:33:46,070 --> 00:33:42,960
and she like randomly got pneumonia and

781
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:51,430
the hospitals yes

782
00:33:56,450 --> 00:33:53,630
told me

783
00:33:58,669 --> 00:33:56,460
oh wow hopefully hopefully maybe that's

784
00:34:00,409 --> 00:33:58,679
just a story is that is that maybe just

785
00:34:02,149 --> 00:34:00,419
a story or is that true

786
00:34:03,529 --> 00:34:02,159
no I'm pretty sure it's true just

787
00:34:05,690 --> 00:34:03,539
knowing her she's like one of those

788
00:34:07,850 --> 00:34:05,700
people you know those people who just

789
00:34:09,109 --> 00:34:07,860
like say really shocking things like

790
00:34:12,230 --> 00:34:09,119
it's just like they're talking about

791
00:34:16,369 --> 00:34:12,240
like their favorite flavor of chips

792
00:34:18,889 --> 00:34:16,379
and like yeah I was response yeah yeah

793
00:34:22,570 --> 00:34:18,899
she's one of those people so like I

794
00:34:25,430 --> 00:34:22,580
don't think that she was like kidding

795
00:34:26,750 --> 00:34:25,440
just me

796
00:34:28,190 --> 00:34:26,760
you know who I'm talking you know what

797
00:34:35,930 --> 00:34:28,200
I'm talking about yeah she's one of

798
00:34:41,030 --> 00:34:38,750
sorry I froze again oh no you're fine

799
00:34:42,109 --> 00:34:41,040
but yeah that's that's scary that really

800
00:34:45,589 --> 00:34:42,119
is

801
00:34:46,790 --> 00:34:45,599
yeah yeah so she yeah she's so she like

802
00:34:49,010 --> 00:34:46,800
totally believes in it because she's

803
00:34:53,210 --> 00:34:49,020
like oh she started seeing people too

804
00:34:58,390 --> 00:34:55,550
and you have to wonder if she wasn't on

805
00:35:00,890 --> 00:34:58,400
like the brink of you know

806
00:35:02,510 --> 00:35:00,900
like the illness came but she was on the

807
00:35:03,410 --> 00:35:02,520
rink and that's why she was able to see

808
00:35:07,010 --> 00:35:03,420
them

809
00:35:11,930 --> 00:35:10,190
yeah absolutely yeah no one knew and

810
00:35:14,329 --> 00:35:11,940
from what I understand actually they

811
00:35:15,770 --> 00:35:14,339
like she just didn't show up to work and

812
00:35:17,270 --> 00:35:15,780
after a couple days they called for a

813
00:35:21,609 --> 00:35:17,280
wellness check and she had like passed

814
00:35:25,910 --> 00:35:24,710
oh my goodness wow and that's how they

815
00:35:29,990 --> 00:35:25,920
found out

816
00:35:32,089 --> 00:35:30,000
yeah see my mom my mom had passed

817
00:35:34,370 --> 00:35:32,099
suddenly but before that she kept saying

818
00:35:35,630 --> 00:35:34,380
to me she's like dude you don't we

819
00:35:37,849 --> 00:35:35,640
didn't keep the hall light on she was

820
00:35:40,970 --> 00:35:37,859
like I keep seeing this like bright

821
00:35:43,130 --> 00:35:40,980
circular flash of light in the hall

822
00:35:44,870 --> 00:35:43,140
and I really like him like maybe it's

823
00:35:46,849 --> 00:35:44,880
yeah I'm just like maybe it's a car

824
00:35:48,589 --> 00:35:46,859
light maybe you know I was trying to

825
00:35:50,810 --> 00:35:48,599
like think of something because she

826
00:35:53,450 --> 00:35:50,820
seemed in perfect health and she's like

827
00:35:55,370 --> 00:35:53,460
no it's it's like a flashing I mean she

828
00:35:57,890 --> 00:35:55,380
she looked like she was afraid not much

829
00:36:00,650 --> 00:35:57,900
scared her I mean she was she was a

830
00:36:03,710 --> 00:36:00,660
cardiac a critical care cardiac nurse

831
00:36:06,770 --> 00:36:03,720
yeah nothing scared her and she's like I

832
00:36:08,630 --> 00:36:06,780
I saw something and like yeah it's okay

833
00:36:11,089 --> 00:36:08,640
just ignore it it's whatever it is it's

834
00:36:13,310 --> 00:36:11,099
fine you know and before she had passed

835
00:36:15,589 --> 00:36:13,320
her dog had passed

836
00:36:18,470 --> 00:36:15,599
so and then she had passed suddenly

837
00:36:20,930 --> 00:36:18,480
after that it was like I said you wonder

838
00:36:22,609 --> 00:36:20,940
if like that nurse seeing somebody and

839
00:36:24,650 --> 00:36:22,619
then my mom saying you have to wonder if

840
00:36:27,170 --> 00:36:24,660
that's you know all connected

841
00:36:28,910 --> 00:36:27,180
yeah absolutely

842
00:36:31,310 --> 00:36:28,920
yeah

843
00:36:35,150 --> 00:36:31,320
so what

844
00:36:37,550 --> 00:36:35,160
what would you say to somebody who their

845
00:36:38,930 --> 00:36:37,560
loved one is saying these you know these

846
00:36:40,609 --> 00:36:38,940
visions and they're just thinking maybe

847
00:36:42,530 --> 00:36:40,619
we should medicate them they're pushing

848
00:36:44,569 --> 00:36:42,540
to medicate them

849
00:36:46,730 --> 00:36:44,579
yeah so we have

850
00:36:48,609 --> 00:36:46,740
um this book it's I've called the little

851
00:36:51,170 --> 00:36:48,619
blue book it's called Gone From My Sight

852
00:36:53,390 --> 00:36:51,180
and every company I've worked for has

853
00:36:56,329 --> 00:36:53,400
this book and

854
00:36:58,910 --> 00:36:56,339
um it describes it in this book as being

855
00:37:01,010 --> 00:36:58,920
very normal so I'll always pull out this

856
00:37:03,109 --> 00:37:01,020
book and say like you know it's not just

857
00:37:05,510 --> 00:37:03,119
me saying this like here's an official

858
00:37:08,630 --> 00:37:05,520
book it's like a thin book you know it

859
00:37:10,490 --> 00:37:08,640
has like kind of the pages of things and

860
00:37:12,430 --> 00:37:10,500
it'll say you know scene to see loved

861
00:37:14,030 --> 00:37:12,440
ones is normal

862
00:37:15,770 --> 00:37:14,040
and

863
00:37:17,870 --> 00:37:15,780
um you know basically what we think of

864
00:37:20,089 --> 00:37:17,880
it is that you have one foot here and

865
00:37:22,790 --> 00:37:20,099
one foot over there

866
00:37:24,849 --> 00:37:22,800
and so you can start seeing things that

867
00:37:27,470 --> 00:37:24,859
we can't

868
00:37:30,410 --> 00:37:27,480
and that is like the actual scientific

869
00:37:34,609 --> 00:37:30,420
book we have and we have no explanation

870
00:37:38,569 --> 00:37:36,710
there's actually a doctor who had

871
00:37:40,990 --> 00:37:38,579
actually done the study on it I think it

872
00:37:43,910 --> 00:37:41,000
was he he ran a hospice

873
00:37:46,910 --> 00:37:43,920
uh practice or so I can't remember his

874
00:37:50,750 --> 00:37:46,920
name but he he had done a scientific

875
00:37:53,450 --> 00:37:50,760
study on it everything I remember his

876
00:37:55,250 --> 00:37:53,460
name off the top of my head

877
00:37:58,609 --> 00:37:55,260
I don't know if you

878
00:38:04,970 --> 00:37:58,619
no I mean he wrote a book and everything

879
00:38:10,849 --> 00:38:08,089
go ahead no no no I thought I thought

880
00:38:22,609 --> 00:38:10,859
you froze no I just was I wanted to hear

881
00:38:27,230 --> 00:38:24,770
are you there I think you froze for a

882
00:38:31,790 --> 00:38:27,240
second I think we're back okay so we're

883
00:38:33,710 --> 00:38:31,800
good sorry yeah yeah I'm so sorry Oh no

884
00:38:36,050 --> 00:38:33,720
you're fine I saw the one where they

885
00:38:37,609 --> 00:38:36,060
yeah he'd written a book on it and

886
00:38:42,349 --> 00:38:37,619
everything yeah

887
00:38:45,410 --> 00:38:43,550
yeah

888
00:38:47,990 --> 00:38:45,420
I I

889
00:38:50,329 --> 00:38:48,000
forget I have it on my audible wish list

890
00:38:51,770 --> 00:38:50,339
to like get it eventually but I just I

891
00:38:55,250 --> 00:38:51,780
forget his name

892
00:38:56,990 --> 00:38:55,260
off the top of my head uh Marla asks

893
00:38:59,630 --> 00:38:57,000
have you had any patience to describe

894
00:39:02,270 --> 00:38:59,640
the light before they pass

895
00:39:05,270 --> 00:39:02,280
I have not actually

896
00:39:07,730 --> 00:39:05,280
I know that that said your mom saw it

897
00:39:10,250 --> 00:39:07,740
too I have not had any patients say that

898
00:39:13,609 --> 00:39:10,260
that means never happened they've just

899
00:39:17,690 --> 00:39:13,619
never you know said it to me

900
00:39:23,150 --> 00:39:20,870
so that yeah now do you your personal

901
00:39:25,730 --> 00:39:23,160
opinion what what do you think happens

902
00:39:27,770 --> 00:39:25,740
do you do you think they like you know

903
00:39:30,050 --> 00:39:27,780
the visitations they stay with them till

904
00:39:31,730 --> 00:39:30,060
the very end to escort them wherever

905
00:39:33,349 --> 00:39:31,740
they're going or do you think they go

906
00:39:34,849 --> 00:39:33,359
into some kind of light just your

907
00:39:36,950 --> 00:39:34,859
personal opinion

908
00:39:38,630 --> 00:39:36,960
I think that they say because I've had

909
00:39:40,849 --> 00:39:38,640
two patients tell me that their loved

910
00:39:43,790 --> 00:39:40,859
one said that they are gonna stay

911
00:39:47,030 --> 00:39:43,800
the whole time so most of our patients

912
00:39:48,410 --> 00:39:47,040
at the last day or two will be in like a

913
00:39:50,510 --> 00:39:48,420
coma

914
00:39:53,450 --> 00:39:50,520
um so we can't we don't know what

915
00:39:56,690 --> 00:39:53,460
they're seeing or doing anymore

916
00:39:59,089 --> 00:39:56,700
um so before that though I've had

917
00:40:00,530 --> 00:39:59,099
multiple patients tell me that their

918
00:40:02,450 --> 00:40:00,540
loved one says they're going to stay

919
00:40:05,089 --> 00:40:02,460
they're going to be there

920
00:40:08,569 --> 00:40:05,099
until then and I had one patient who

921
00:40:10,550 --> 00:40:08,579
like her sister was there and then she

922
00:40:11,870 --> 00:40:10,560
took a nap and I was there that whole

923
00:40:14,870 --> 00:40:11,880
time and then when she woke up she was

924
00:40:16,849 --> 00:40:14,880
like oh my sister's still here and I was

925
00:40:19,550 --> 00:40:16,859
like oh yeah she's staying she's like

926
00:40:22,069 --> 00:40:19,560
yeah she said she's gonna stay until we

927
00:40:23,210 --> 00:40:22,079
leave and I was like okay like she says

928
00:40:26,450 --> 00:40:23,220
it like

929
00:40:28,550 --> 00:40:26,460
like she's just you know whatever

930
00:40:31,490 --> 00:40:28,560
you should always amazes me very

931
00:40:33,170 --> 00:40:31,500
nonchalantly yeah

932
00:40:35,630 --> 00:40:33,180
yeah now

933
00:40:38,569 --> 00:40:35,640
do you stay in the room with them when

934
00:40:40,310 --> 00:40:38,579
you're waiting basically you do

935
00:40:41,630 --> 00:40:40,320
so you're they're the in almost the

936
00:40:45,050 --> 00:40:41,640
entire time

937
00:40:47,329 --> 00:40:45,060
so what we normally do is it just kind

938
00:40:49,069 --> 00:40:47,339
of depends on what's going on we can do

939
00:40:51,710 --> 00:40:49,079
something called Continuous Care which

940
00:40:53,630 --> 00:40:51,720
is like yappy in there all the time if

941
00:40:55,970 --> 00:40:53,640
they're having like a pain you know

942
00:40:57,410 --> 00:40:55,980
things that we need to help with

943
00:40:58,730 --> 00:40:57,420
um but if they're under control and

944
00:41:04,750 --> 00:40:58,740
they're fine we usually come for about

945
00:41:10,190 --> 00:41:07,310
what is your favorite story out of your

946
00:41:16,250 --> 00:41:13,190
um that's hard you know the reason it's

947
00:41:18,230 --> 00:41:16,260
hard is because you know I've had so

948
00:41:20,450 --> 00:41:18,240
many people at the Publishing House read

949
00:41:21,109 --> 00:41:20,460
it and

950
00:41:23,750 --> 00:41:21,119
um

951
00:41:25,069 --> 00:41:23,760
it seems like everyone takes away like

952
00:41:26,990 --> 00:41:25,079
everyone has a different favorite

953
00:41:30,890 --> 00:41:27,000
because everyone has like something

954
00:41:33,710 --> 00:41:30,900
different to take away from it

955
00:41:36,530 --> 00:41:33,720
um my favorite is the one I was telling

956
00:41:38,810 --> 00:41:36,540
you about with the daughter who drowned

957
00:41:40,550 --> 00:41:38,820
just because that's my favorite patient

958
00:41:43,550 --> 00:41:40,560
ever

959
00:41:46,970 --> 00:41:43,560
um he was like a grandfather to me

960
00:41:47,810 --> 00:41:46,980
whenever I didn't have that figure in my

961
00:41:50,569 --> 00:41:47,820
life

962
00:41:52,430 --> 00:41:50,579
so you know he's just my favorite person

963
00:41:55,069 --> 00:41:52,440
ever

964
00:41:56,870 --> 00:41:55,079
um so that one the one where he had lost

965
00:41:58,010 --> 00:41:56,880
his toddler and she came back and got

966
00:42:01,130 --> 00:41:58,020
him and they were playing hide and seek

967
00:42:02,750 --> 00:42:01,140
is my favorite but it's very interesting

968
00:42:04,069 --> 00:42:02,760
to hear everyone's feedback and that

969
00:42:08,630 --> 00:42:04,079
everyone relates to a different story

970
00:42:15,950 --> 00:42:12,710
yeah yeah no I agree what made you want

971
00:42:17,510 --> 00:42:15,960
to bring besides you know wanting people

972
00:42:19,730 --> 00:42:17,520
to be more comfortable with death and

973
00:42:22,490 --> 00:42:19,740
everything what made you want to do the

974
00:42:27,790 --> 00:42:22,500
tick tocks and want to you know put your

975
00:42:33,710 --> 00:42:30,890
at times ridicule or some someone's like

976
00:42:36,470 --> 00:42:33,720
you know maybe this isn't true

977
00:42:39,470 --> 00:42:36,480
yeah oh yeah all the time

978
00:42:41,630 --> 00:42:39,480
um and I'm used to it by now but uh Tick

979
00:42:43,250 --> 00:42:41,640
Tock was an accident

980
00:42:46,250 --> 00:42:43,260
um I actually was looking for a video

981
00:42:48,770 --> 00:42:46,260
editor and so Tick Tock was the first

982
00:42:50,030 --> 00:42:48,780
thing three years ago that popped up and

983
00:42:51,710 --> 00:42:50,040
then like you just like go through the

984
00:42:53,870 --> 00:42:51,720
steps and then it saved you used to save

985
00:42:55,430 --> 00:42:53,880
to your phone when you posted it like

986
00:42:57,349 --> 00:42:55,440
that was the only way to save it was to

987
00:42:58,790 --> 00:42:57,359
post it so I just like went through it

988
00:43:01,730 --> 00:42:58,800
because I was gonna do a video on our

989
00:43:03,650 --> 00:43:01,740
like personal private Facebook pages and

990
00:43:05,329 --> 00:43:03,660
so I did that and then like the next

991
00:43:06,410 --> 00:43:05,339
morning I woke up to like two million

992
00:43:09,349 --> 00:43:06,420
views

993
00:43:11,270 --> 00:43:09,359
and I was like oh my gosh this is insane

994
00:43:14,030 --> 00:43:11,280
oh wow everyone in the comments was like

995
00:43:15,470 --> 00:43:14,040
what kind of nurse are you and so I

996
00:43:17,809 --> 00:43:15,480
ignored them for a little bit because I

997
00:43:22,130 --> 00:43:17,819
was used to people just being like Oh

998
00:43:24,770 --> 00:43:22,140
off the complaint you know and

999
00:43:26,450 --> 00:43:24,780
um so finally I was like okay I'm a

1000
00:43:28,089 --> 00:43:26,460
hospice nurse and like I think I have

1001
00:43:31,130 --> 00:43:28,099
cool stories if y'all want to hear them

1002
00:43:33,950 --> 00:43:31,140
and I was like probably No One's Gonna

1003
00:43:36,230 --> 00:43:33,960
want to and the amount of comments that

1004
00:43:38,750 --> 00:43:36,240
I got where people were like I lost my

1005
00:43:40,609 --> 00:43:38,760
mom or I lost my dad like please talk to

1006
00:43:42,170 --> 00:43:40,619
us like no one wants to talk about it

1007
00:43:44,329 --> 00:43:42,180
like none of my friends want to talk

1008
00:43:46,849 --> 00:43:44,339
about this like I want a place to go to

1009
00:43:48,650 --> 00:43:46,859
be able to talk about this and so I was

1010
00:43:52,190 --> 00:43:48,660
like okay

1011
00:43:54,829 --> 00:43:52,200
and then it's just kind of been you know

1012
00:43:57,530 --> 00:43:54,839
it's been throughout that but I would

1013
00:44:01,010 --> 00:43:57,540
say that 99 of the comments are positive

1014
00:44:02,690 --> 00:44:01,020
so I'm like you know as long as more

1015
00:44:06,650 --> 00:44:02,700
more of them are positive than negative

1016
00:44:09,170 --> 00:44:06,660
then I'm doing something right exactly

1017
00:44:11,510 --> 00:44:09,180
yeah like I like what Vince has said

1018
00:44:13,609 --> 00:44:11,520
like a safe yeah so for grieving yeah

1019
00:44:15,530 --> 00:44:13,619
exactly and that's that's what kind of

1020
00:44:17,990 --> 00:44:15,540
like I that caught my attention about

1021
00:44:19,910 --> 00:44:18,000
your tick tocks like you know that you

1022
00:44:21,950 --> 00:44:19,920
were basically doing that you were

1023
00:44:24,230 --> 00:44:21,960
giving people like showing them that

1024
00:44:25,849 --> 00:44:24,240
there is hope but you're also showing

1025
00:44:28,550 --> 00:44:25,859
them that you know it's okay to be sad

1026
00:44:30,290 --> 00:44:28,560
it's okay if you're not you know you

1027
00:44:32,870 --> 00:44:30,300
don't want Grandma to go or you don't

1028
00:44:35,569 --> 00:44:32,880
want you know your uncle to go and pass

1029
00:44:38,390 --> 00:44:35,579
on but they are going with their family

1030
00:44:40,849 --> 00:44:38,400
or their pet or something and that's

1031
00:44:43,250 --> 00:44:40,859
comforting that really is you know that

1032
00:44:45,770 --> 00:44:43,260
yeah that helps the grieving process

1033
00:44:49,190 --> 00:44:45,780
so yeah that is really good

1034
00:44:50,690 --> 00:44:49,200
yeah and so one of your tick tocks you

1035
00:44:53,470 --> 00:44:50,700
had talked about

1036
00:44:57,050 --> 00:44:53,480
um I believe I hope I don't watch this

1037
00:44:59,809 --> 00:44:57,060
that uh I believe one of your patients

1038
00:45:02,210 --> 00:44:59,819
wasn't able to have their loved ones

1039
00:45:03,589 --> 00:45:02,220
stay with them

1040
00:45:05,690 --> 00:45:03,599
trying to think of which one that would

1041
00:45:08,510 --> 00:45:05,700
be and that led you to wanting to start

1042
00:45:09,849 --> 00:45:08,520
yes start wanting to start your

1043
00:45:13,910 --> 00:45:09,859
non-profit

1044
00:45:15,410 --> 00:45:13,920
yes so yeah that one what you want me to

1045
00:45:16,790 --> 00:45:15,420
kind of share what it was yeah so if you

1046
00:45:19,430 --> 00:45:16,800
want to talk about that

1047
00:45:22,670 --> 00:45:19,440
yeah so there's this thing in hospice

1048
00:45:24,290 --> 00:45:22,680
called respite care go ahead is

1049
00:45:24,890 --> 00:45:24,300
basically like

1050
00:45:27,230 --> 00:45:24,900
um

1051
00:45:29,569 --> 00:45:27,240
if you if the caregiver needs a break

1052
00:45:32,450 --> 00:45:29,579
hospice will pay for up to five days for

1053
00:45:36,109 --> 00:45:32,460
them to go to a facility to stay so that

1054
00:45:37,670 --> 00:45:36,119
the caregiver can get a break and what I

1055
00:45:40,010 --> 00:45:37,680
was Finding was a lot of people wouldn't

1056
00:45:41,690 --> 00:45:40,020
take that because usually when you're

1057
00:45:43,069 --> 00:45:41,700
needing a break it's like near the end

1058
00:45:44,870 --> 00:45:43,079
of life because things are just getting

1059
00:45:46,609 --> 00:45:44,880
hard to manage

1060
00:45:48,470 --> 00:45:46,619
um and then they don't want to risk not

1061
00:45:52,190 --> 00:45:48,480
being there whenever their loved one

1062
00:45:54,589 --> 00:45:52,200
passes and then I had an incident where

1063
00:45:57,530 --> 00:45:54,599
the caregiver put them in respite care

1064
00:46:00,290 --> 00:45:57,540
and they tried to stay and they would

1065
00:46:03,349 --> 00:46:00,300
not let them stay and so they told them

1066
00:46:05,630 --> 00:46:03,359
to go home and her husband passed

1067
00:46:08,030 --> 00:46:05,640
and she was not there

1068
00:46:10,430 --> 00:46:08,040
and I was like this has got to change

1069
00:46:12,530 --> 00:46:10,440
like this is not acceptable that the

1070
00:46:15,050 --> 00:46:12,540
that only patients are welcome in a

1071
00:46:16,670 --> 00:46:15,060
place and you know we're expecting

1072
00:46:17,630 --> 00:46:16,680
caregivers to get a break when all

1073
00:46:18,890 --> 00:46:17,640
they're doing is sitting at home

1074
00:46:21,290 --> 00:46:18,900
worrying that they're not going to be

1075
00:46:24,530 --> 00:46:21,300
there when their loved ones

1076
00:46:27,050 --> 00:46:24,540
and so yeah I'm working on it I'm gonna

1077
00:46:30,290 --> 00:46:27,060
I feel like I'm gonna set the standard

1078
00:46:31,670 --> 00:46:30,300
for what a hospice house should be and

1079
00:46:34,730 --> 00:46:31,680
that we need to be taking care of

1080
00:46:37,370 --> 00:46:34,740
caregivers they need to be welcome their

1081
00:46:39,770 --> 00:46:37,380
pets need to be welcome they need an

1082
00:46:43,190 --> 00:46:39,780
actual good meal an actual bed to sleep

1083
00:46:45,170 --> 00:46:43,200
in like an actual break we need we need

1084
00:46:49,010 --> 00:46:45,180
to take better care of caregivers in

1085
00:46:51,530 --> 00:46:49,020
this country it's it's not good what's

1086
00:46:56,450 --> 00:46:54,470
okay so where are you in the process of

1087
00:46:59,930 --> 00:46:56,460
this non-profit

1088
00:47:01,849 --> 00:46:59,940
yeah so I'm currently trying to choose a

1089
00:47:03,890 --> 00:47:01,859
board of directors I was really worried

1090
00:47:07,970 --> 00:47:03,900
no one was going to apply but I actually

1091
00:47:08,890 --> 00:47:07,980
have like over 80 qualified people and I

1092
00:47:13,670 --> 00:47:08,900
am

1093
00:47:15,530 --> 00:47:13,680
board at make a wish and just you know

1094
00:47:18,050 --> 00:47:15,540
all these amazing people who can really

1095
00:47:20,690 --> 00:47:18,060
make it come true so it's had a little

1096
00:47:22,190 --> 00:47:20,700
bit of imposter syndrome lately but I'm

1097
00:47:23,690 --> 00:47:22,200
getting through it and I'm gonna choose

1098
00:47:26,750 --> 00:47:23,700
the board soon and then we'll start

1099
00:47:30,650 --> 00:47:29,030
okay and what you do please send us the

1100
00:47:32,150 --> 00:47:30,660
link and we'll be happy to put it up for

1101
00:47:34,490 --> 00:47:32,160
you because that was going to be my next

1102
00:47:37,010 --> 00:47:34,500
question how can if someone's looking to

1103
00:47:40,370 --> 00:47:37,020
help how can they help you do this

1104
00:47:42,109 --> 00:47:40,380
yes thank you yeah honestly by my book

1105
00:47:43,250 --> 00:47:42,119
pre-ordering my book that really helps

1106
00:47:45,589 --> 00:47:43,260
you know

1107
00:47:47,270 --> 00:47:45,599
um that's that has always been kind of a

1108
00:47:49,490 --> 00:47:47,280
way that I realized I could get that

1109
00:47:50,930 --> 00:47:49,500
idea out into the mainstream you know

1110
00:47:53,270 --> 00:47:50,940
the publishing world makes that pretty

1111
00:47:55,730 --> 00:47:53,280
easy so

1112
00:47:58,970 --> 00:47:55,740
um that and then you know proceeds of it

1113
00:48:00,770 --> 00:47:58,980
helps me get to building it as well so

1114
00:48:03,109 --> 00:48:00,780
you know that's kind of how I'm telling

1115
00:48:05,690 --> 00:48:03,119
people now they can support me

1116
00:48:08,150 --> 00:48:05,700
okay that's wonderful and the chat is

1117
00:48:11,329 --> 00:48:08,160
very excited for you as well for what I

1118
00:48:12,770 --> 00:48:11,339
can see but like I said once you're up

1119
00:48:14,569 --> 00:48:12,780
and running and you're ready for

1120
00:48:16,190 --> 00:48:14,579
donations and things like that send us

1121
00:48:19,670 --> 00:48:16,200
the link we'll be more than happy to put

1122
00:48:22,130 --> 00:48:19,680
it up for you thank you so much no

1123
00:48:23,870 --> 00:48:22,140
problem is there any other stories that

1124
00:48:25,790 --> 00:48:23,880
you want to tell us about that it'd be

1125
00:48:27,589 --> 00:48:25,800
that really stuck with you anything you

1126
00:48:28,370 --> 00:48:27,599
can pick from any stories that come to

1127
00:48:30,109 --> 00:48:28,380
mind

1128
00:48:31,970 --> 00:48:30,119
hmm

1129
00:48:33,530 --> 00:48:31,980
let me think I'm trying to think of one

1130
00:48:38,930 --> 00:48:33,540
that's like not in my book so I can give

1131
00:48:38,940 --> 00:48:42,170
hmm

1132
00:48:42,180 --> 00:48:46,490
let me think

1133
00:48:53,630 --> 00:48:48,470
you know there was

1134
00:48:58,910 --> 00:48:56,329
trying to think of one I have so many

1135
00:49:01,069 --> 00:48:58,920
patients that I take care of you know

1136
00:49:02,809 --> 00:49:01,079
it's hard too no I totally understand

1137
00:49:05,270 --> 00:49:02,819
that I feel bad putting you on the spot

1138
00:49:06,849 --> 00:49:05,280
but I know it's very interested to hear

1139
00:49:10,370 --> 00:49:06,859
your story so

1140
00:49:12,109 --> 00:49:10,380
yeah no I don't mind at all

1141
00:49:15,109 --> 00:49:12,119
um

1142
00:49:24,309 --> 00:49:15,119
I

1143
00:49:26,089 --> 00:49:24,319
have it in the back of my mind

1144
00:49:29,270 --> 00:49:26,099
all right

1145
00:49:31,670 --> 00:49:29,280
does anyone have any other questions

1146
00:49:33,770 --> 00:49:31,680
I just see Marlo's old question up there

1147
00:49:34,730 --> 00:49:33,780
but

1148
00:49:40,250 --> 00:49:34,740
I

1149
00:49:45,710 --> 00:49:43,370
but no and getting see what fascinates

1150
00:49:47,690 --> 00:49:45,720
me getting back to the animals like is

1151
00:49:49,609 --> 00:49:47,700
it just been dogs or has there been

1152
00:49:51,589 --> 00:49:49,619
other types of animals that you have

1153
00:49:53,750 --> 00:49:51,599
been you know

1154
00:49:56,329 --> 00:49:53,760
like your patients have seen

1155
00:49:58,730 --> 00:49:56,339
we had someone that I saw like petting

1156
00:50:01,010 --> 00:49:58,740
the air one time and their daughter said

1157
00:50:02,930 --> 00:50:01,020
that she had always had cats so she

1158
00:50:04,670 --> 00:50:02,940
could not speak to us because she had

1159
00:50:06,650 --> 00:50:04,680
dementia

1160
00:50:10,130 --> 00:50:06,660
um but the family felt very strongly

1161
00:50:12,770 --> 00:50:10,140
that those were her cats coming back

1162
00:50:14,270 --> 00:50:12,780
so that that would be the other one no I

1163
00:50:16,430 --> 00:50:14,280
haven't seen any like snakes or anything

1164
00:50:18,650 --> 00:50:16,440
like that

1165
00:50:21,230 --> 00:50:18,660
thank God for that I'm just gonna say

1166
00:50:23,930 --> 00:50:21,240
yeah if that was the man the mistakes

1167
00:50:27,710 --> 00:50:23,940
like no I'm out you have to find a new

1168
00:50:30,890 --> 00:50:27,720
nurse I don't do snakes people have them

1169
00:50:32,450 --> 00:50:30,900
in their house people have crazy you

1170
00:50:34,430 --> 00:50:32,460
know what if y'all want I'll leave with

1171
00:50:36,230 --> 00:50:34,440
a funny story

1172
00:50:39,890 --> 00:50:36,240
um the one of the times I've ever been

1173
00:50:41,870 --> 00:50:39,900
fired from a patient is that

1174
00:50:44,450 --> 00:50:41,880
um oh what are they called they're like

1175
00:50:46,309 --> 00:50:44,460
little chipmunks they're called Flying

1176
00:50:48,190 --> 00:50:46,319
something

1177
00:50:50,930 --> 00:50:48,200
um they're like flying flying squirrels

1178
00:50:51,829 --> 00:50:50,940
yeah and yeah

1179
00:50:53,450 --> 00:50:51,839
um

1180
00:50:56,510 --> 00:50:53,460
they have like a name for them but

1181
00:50:58,970 --> 00:50:56,520
anyway she kept them in her bra

1182
00:51:02,049 --> 00:50:58,980
and apparently that's sugar gliders

1183
00:51:06,349 --> 00:51:02,059
that's it sugar gliders

1184
00:51:10,730 --> 00:51:06,359
when she kept them in her bra and no one

1185
00:51:13,849 --> 00:51:10,740
told me and so I know you put my

1186
00:51:17,390 --> 00:51:13,859
stethoscope to her chest and this head

1187
00:51:19,329 --> 00:51:17,400
popped out at me and I screamed and

1188
00:51:22,910 --> 00:51:19,339
probably peed myself

1189
00:51:26,329 --> 00:51:22,920
and she was like oh my God like you're

1190
00:51:30,309 --> 00:51:26,339
scaring them like calm down like

1191
00:51:33,770 --> 00:51:30,319
it's you're scaring them

1192
00:51:35,569 --> 00:51:33,780
oh my God and she yeah she had like

1193
00:51:37,490 --> 00:51:35,579
three of them

1194
00:51:39,950 --> 00:51:37,500
yeah

1195
00:51:42,410 --> 00:51:39,960
that's an interesting place to keep them

1196
00:51:44,690 --> 00:51:42,420
I mean I guess they were warm

1197
00:51:46,609 --> 00:51:44,700
yeah I don't and apparently it's normal

1198
00:51:48,170 --> 00:51:46,619
flag so of course I get in my car and I

1199
00:51:50,750 --> 00:51:48,180
start youtubing it apparently it's very

1200
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:54,170
it is

1201
00:52:10,809 --> 00:51:55,490
yeah

1202
00:52:17,390 --> 00:52:13,569
is interesting let me tell you

1203
00:52:19,990 --> 00:52:17,400
uh I I was going to do that because I I

1204
00:52:21,790 --> 00:52:20,000
did work as like an aide for a while

1205
00:52:24,049 --> 00:52:21,800
yeah

1206
00:52:25,790 --> 00:52:24,059
I decided to work at the group home

1207
00:52:27,770 --> 00:52:25,800
instead of going to people's houses

1208
00:52:31,670 --> 00:52:27,780
because I was like I don't think I'd be

1209
00:52:34,010 --> 00:52:31,680
comfortable with that i i people but I

1210
00:52:35,030 --> 00:52:34,020
learned from my mom people

1211
00:52:37,910 --> 00:52:35,040
foreign

1212
00:52:41,589 --> 00:52:37,920
but no I couldn't somebody said in the

1213
00:52:46,930 --> 00:52:44,450
I'm gonna have to agree I don't think

1214
00:52:49,670 --> 00:52:46,940
that's normal

1215
00:52:51,530 --> 00:52:49,680
and I just I don't understand how you're

1216
00:52:54,290 --> 00:52:51,540
gonna walk around with them in your bra

1217
00:52:56,510 --> 00:52:54,300
that's I mean your only people do y'all

1218
00:52:58,569 --> 00:52:56,520
should YouTube it too like I swear I did

1219
00:53:03,609 --> 00:52:58,579
see it apparently it's very normal

1220
00:53:05,150 --> 00:53:03,619
I'm getting a have to now because yeah

1221
00:53:07,730 --> 00:53:05,160
yeah

1222
00:53:10,250 --> 00:53:07,740
and they're very cute though I just was

1223
00:53:12,349 --> 00:53:10,260
shocked they're very cute

1224
00:53:14,150 --> 00:53:12,359
yeah mine would be too because you're

1225
00:53:15,349 --> 00:53:14,160
not expecting it then all of a sudden

1226
00:53:19,809 --> 00:53:15,359
these things you don't know if it's

1227
00:53:23,230 --> 00:53:19,819
gonna bite you or not too yeah

1228
00:53:25,430 --> 00:53:23,240
I know

1229
00:53:26,630 --> 00:53:25,440
she could have been like well you're not

1230
00:53:28,609 --> 00:53:26,640
gonna be able to hear my heart you're

1231
00:53:31,270 --> 00:53:28,619
gonna like get a little fluffy down

1232
00:53:33,349 --> 00:53:31,280
there or whatever yeah its name was like

1233
00:53:35,290 --> 00:53:33,359
did you

1234
00:53:38,210 --> 00:53:35,300
could you tell us any more about

1235
00:53:39,910 --> 00:53:38,220
non-human visitors thanks again that's

1236
00:53:44,030 --> 00:53:39,920
one of the questions

1237
00:53:48,950 --> 00:53:44,040
non-human visitors meaning like pets

1238
00:53:50,150 --> 00:53:48,960
I'm gonna guess meeting pets yeah okay

1239
00:53:51,650 --> 00:53:50,160
um yeah

1240
00:53:53,990 --> 00:53:51,660
so

1241
00:53:57,650 --> 00:53:54,000
the woman that we had that was at the

1242
00:53:58,910 --> 00:53:57,660
facility when she woke up she heard

1243
00:54:02,210 --> 00:53:58,920
barking

1244
00:54:04,250 --> 00:54:02,220
and she was like I did not know that

1245
00:54:06,890 --> 00:54:04,260
y'all like allowed pets in here and I

1246
00:54:08,270 --> 00:54:06,900
was like we don't let pets in here and I

1247
00:54:10,309 --> 00:54:08,280
was like

1248
00:54:12,170 --> 00:54:10,319
um but you know maybe something else is

1249
00:54:14,569 --> 00:54:12,180
outside she's like I just keep hearing

1250
00:54:16,549 --> 00:54:14,579
this barking and so I go out to the

1251
00:54:17,990 --> 00:54:16,559
nurse's station I was like y'all is

1252
00:54:20,390 --> 00:54:18,000
there a dog here like do y'all hear

1253
00:54:22,010 --> 00:54:20,400
barking they're like No And so I was

1254
00:54:24,770 --> 00:54:22,020
like okay my patient's hearing barking

1255
00:54:27,950 --> 00:54:24,780
and that's when I went back in and she

1256
00:54:31,730 --> 00:54:27,960
was like talking to her dog and like

1257
00:54:33,650 --> 00:54:31,740
petting her dog and I was like oh like

1258
00:54:36,349 --> 00:54:33,660
she's here she came because she had

1259
00:54:38,930 --> 00:54:36,359
talked about this dog beforehand and she

1260
00:54:40,549 --> 00:54:38,940
was like yeah yeah she came and she was

1261
00:54:43,490 --> 00:54:40,559
so happy and she had not been happy the

1262
00:54:49,549 --> 00:54:46,730
I I can imagine oh my gosh um they they

1263
00:54:52,730 --> 00:54:49,559
said like angels they mean like

1264
00:54:58,609 --> 00:54:52,740
non-human considers us and angels

1265
00:55:01,430 --> 00:54:58,619
so I think that at all the Angels like

1266
00:55:05,270 --> 00:55:01,440
um are deceased people that everything

1267
00:55:08,089 --> 00:55:05,280
I've seen is where um they know them and

1268
00:55:09,770 --> 00:55:08,099
their family members or friends and they

1269
00:55:12,530 --> 00:55:09,780
they knew them from when they were alive

1270
00:55:14,809 --> 00:55:12,540
that come to get them

1271
00:55:17,150 --> 00:55:14,819
so I guess they're not human anymore so

1272
00:55:20,390 --> 00:55:17,160
basically they're

1273
00:55:22,730 --> 00:55:20,400
yeah so that would make them their

1274
00:55:24,049 --> 00:55:22,740
guardian angel in a way that's how I

1275
00:55:26,750 --> 00:55:24,059
yeah

1276
00:55:28,970 --> 00:55:26,760
yes and they're usually um whatever age

1277
00:55:32,870 --> 00:55:28,980
they want to be um like not always the

1278
00:55:36,829 --> 00:55:34,910
they're like healthy looking

1279
00:55:39,170 --> 00:55:36,839
could you tell her about that that's

1280
00:55:41,870 --> 00:55:39,180
interesting

1281
00:55:44,569 --> 00:55:41,880
what was that dude

1282
00:55:46,790 --> 00:55:44,579
do they ever like go younger do they

1283
00:55:50,390 --> 00:55:46,800
ever go like younger Maybe

1284
00:55:52,490 --> 00:55:50,400
yeah maybe if uh the grandmother had

1285
00:55:55,069 --> 00:55:52,500
passed on okay

1286
00:55:58,490 --> 00:55:55,079
so do you have a story about that maybe

1287
00:56:00,829 --> 00:55:58,500
yeah so I had an older patient who saw

1288
00:56:03,710 --> 00:56:00,839
his mom and

1289
00:56:07,130 --> 00:56:03,720
um he had said like wow she looks how

1290
00:56:11,690 --> 00:56:07,140
she looked whenever I was a child so she

1291
00:56:15,710 --> 00:56:11,700
was probably in her 20s but I knew that

1292
00:56:19,910 --> 00:56:17,930
so she came back basically very young

1293
00:56:23,470 --> 00:56:19,920
and healthy

1294
00:56:29,329 --> 00:56:27,650
yes yes but still how he remembered her

1295
00:56:33,710 --> 00:56:29,339
too

1296
00:56:36,049 --> 00:56:33,720
you know that he recognized her but yeah

1297
00:56:38,089 --> 00:56:36,059
right right and I think that's that's

1298
00:56:40,250 --> 00:56:38,099
another thing too if you see them you

1299
00:56:42,170 --> 00:56:40,260
know if when she was older you see her

1300
00:56:43,609 --> 00:56:42,180
and maybe you're worried about her

1301
00:56:45,349 --> 00:56:43,619
because she's older but she comes back

1302
00:56:47,510 --> 00:56:45,359
healthy and Young

1303
00:56:49,370 --> 00:56:47,520
it's a comfort in a way because that's

1304
00:56:50,930 --> 00:56:49,380
that's your mom basically or at least

1305
00:56:52,130 --> 00:56:50,940
his mom you know

1306
00:56:55,670 --> 00:56:52,140
yeah

1307
00:56:57,829 --> 00:56:55,680
um

1308
00:56:59,030 --> 00:56:57,839
is there any other type of animal

1309
00:57:03,890 --> 00:56:59,040
stories

1310
00:57:06,410 --> 00:57:03,900
like you

1311
00:57:08,690 --> 00:57:06,420
you had told us earlier that like uh

1312
00:57:12,650 --> 00:57:08,700
children coming back

1313
00:57:14,690 --> 00:57:12,660
yeah there's not too many of them

1314
00:57:16,790 --> 00:57:14,700
um you know that those 19 animal ones

1315
00:57:18,890 --> 00:57:16,800
and I think that the reason those

1316
00:57:21,710 --> 00:57:18,900
animals came is because that was what

1317
00:57:23,329 --> 00:57:21,720
was most important to the patient

1318
00:57:25,190 --> 00:57:23,339
um whereas usually what's most important

1319
00:57:28,370 --> 00:57:25,200
to patient is their spouse or their mom

1320
00:57:29,809 --> 00:57:28,380
or their dad you know what I mean and of

1321
00:57:32,089 --> 00:57:29,819
course thankfully it's not very common

1322
00:57:35,390 --> 00:57:32,099
to lose your children

1323
00:57:37,250 --> 00:57:35,400
um right thankfully I have had

1324
00:57:39,770 --> 00:57:37,260
um older patients who have their

1325
00:57:43,430 --> 00:57:39,780
children come that were adults when they

1326
00:57:45,530 --> 00:57:43,440
passed so like still their kids coming

1327
00:57:47,089 --> 00:57:45,540
um but they're adult you know

1328
00:57:49,790 --> 00:57:47,099
yeah

1329
00:57:51,890 --> 00:57:49,800
that's sad that's interesting and did

1330
00:57:53,270 --> 00:57:51,900
they say they look like adults or were

1331
00:57:55,849 --> 00:57:53,280
they children

1332
00:57:58,250 --> 00:57:55,859
so I had one saying

1333
00:58:00,109 --> 00:57:58,260
um so she had lost her son to diabetes

1334
00:58:03,049 --> 00:58:00,119
and he had had to have

1335
00:58:04,849 --> 00:58:03,059
um double leg amputation

1336
00:58:07,370 --> 00:58:04,859
um before he had passed because of his

1337
00:58:10,190 --> 00:58:07,380
diabetes and when I was in there she was

1338
00:58:15,530 --> 00:58:10,200
talking to his brother so her other son

1339
00:58:17,750 --> 00:58:15,540
who was alive and he she said oh um hey

1340
00:58:20,630 --> 00:58:17,760
his name is Richard Richard has his legs

1341
00:58:23,450 --> 00:58:20,640
his legs are back so he had come back

1342
00:58:25,190 --> 00:58:23,460
healthy before he'd had the amputations

1343
00:58:26,809 --> 00:58:25,200
no

1344
00:58:29,690 --> 00:58:26,819
yeah

1345
00:58:32,329 --> 00:58:29,700
oh that's wonderful that really is

1346
00:58:34,069 --> 00:58:32,339
so if you want to tell everyone where

1347
00:58:35,049 --> 00:58:34,079
they can find you where they can find

1348
00:58:38,270 --> 00:58:35,059
your book

1349
00:58:41,690 --> 00:58:38,280
and everything else

1350
00:58:45,289 --> 00:58:41,700
yeah so I'm on Tick Tock and Instagram

1351
00:58:47,930 --> 00:58:45,299
is Nurse Hadley and my book is in

1352
00:58:52,130 --> 00:58:47,940
between as you put it up there and um

1353
00:58:55,789 --> 00:58:52,140
it'll be in all bookstores in June and

1354
00:58:59,750 --> 00:58:55,799
uh yeah pre-order Amazon books million

1355
00:59:05,329 --> 00:58:59,760
uh your local bookstore you know all of

1356
00:59:09,829 --> 00:59:07,430
and is do you know if this is going to

1357
00:59:11,870 --> 00:59:09,839
be on Kindle and audible as well just in

1358
00:59:14,809 --> 00:59:11,880
case every you know somebody has that

1359
00:59:17,390 --> 00:59:14,819
preference yeah both of them

1360
00:59:21,770 --> 00:59:17,400
and I am recording the audiobook I just

1361
00:59:26,809 --> 00:59:24,770
okay perfect and it's going to be let me

1362
00:59:28,670 --> 00:59:26,819
pull this up one more time so I can make

1363
00:59:32,030 --> 00:59:28,680
sure I'm telling everyone it's going to

1364
00:59:35,630 --> 00:59:32,040
be out June 13th yeah so look for it

1365
00:59:38,150 --> 00:59:35,640
then pre-order it for June 13th yes okay

1366
00:59:40,849 --> 00:59:38,160
and I appreciate you bearing with me and

1367
00:59:43,250 --> 00:59:40,859
my internet and thank you so much for

1368
00:59:44,630 --> 00:59:43,260
coming on and hopefully if you want to

1369
00:59:47,089 --> 00:59:44,640
come back when the book

1370
00:59:49,490 --> 00:59:47,099
of course yeah the book comes out if you

1371
00:59:50,270 --> 00:59:49,500
want to come back and if you want to you

1372
00:59:52,130 --> 00:59:50,280
know

1373
00:59:53,569 --> 00:59:52,140
yeah I would love to have you back we

1374
00:59:55,849 --> 00:59:53,579
would love to hear more of your stories

1375
00:59:58,069 --> 00:59:55,859
we would love to support your non-profit

1376
00:59:59,510 --> 00:59:58,079
as well and we're excited for that so

1377
01:00:01,789 --> 00:59:59,520
thank you so much

1378
01:00:04,690 --> 01:00:01,799
perfect yeah that'd be great thank y'all

1379
01:00:07,490 --> 01:00:04,700
for having me all right yeah

1380
01:00:08,750 --> 01:00:07,500
bye oh everyone from what I could see

1381
01:00:11,870 --> 01:00:08,760
everyone loved you so everyone

1382
01:00:14,870 --> 01:00:11,880
definitely wants you back

1383
01:00:17,510 --> 01:00:14,880
so I want to thank everyone for being

1384
01:00:19,849 --> 01:00:17,520
here and thank you all for sticking

1385
01:00:23,210 --> 01:00:19,859
around next week Bigfoot Michigan Rob

1386
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:23,220
will be my guest and until next week

1387
01:00:38,770 --> 01:00:25,770
I'll talk to you later bye

1388
01:00:44,750 --> 01:00:38,780
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